“Fight to get better, not to bring the other person down.”
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"Not everyone is meant to be monogamous forever and that's totally OK. It doesn't make you a bad person."
"Divorce will ruin your perception of how relationships should be, even if it's just temporarily. You might expect things to always go wrong or fall apart, but it doesn't have to be that way. With the right person, you'll feel the ground underneath your feet again.
There will be a moment in time when you are all together years later, sitting at a table, maybe even laughing. You'll think, 'This is what life could have been like.' But it's not, because that never existed. That doesn't mean you can't create it yourself."
"My parents got divorced when I was 21, and I learned that if you hate your spouse, you should not stay together for the sake of your kids because you're not doing anybody any favors. Also, to be successful at marriage, you need to be a good apologizer."
